nificant people to our home. Having good relationship with our in-laws goes a long way in getting our wife’s attention.

Been good at bed is another way a man can employ to get his wife’s attention. This is very good; a man that is weak at bed is eventually turning his wife to look out. It pays to go for medical check-up whenever you observe that sex had become problem in the home. Learning the art of sex is never an effort wasted. Woman love strong energetic and romantic man that will do it to their satisfaction. She will always hold the man’s picture in her mind, she will also want to be close with such man – hence getting her attention will not pose any problem. Very well meaning individuals are trying to ignore this fact, but I will not. In all my writings and practical seminars on marriage I use to emphasis on the issue of sex. Marriage are heading on rock these days just the couples involve would not wisely handle the issue of sex. The irony of it is that no couple will ever come out and nail the real issue at-stake; instead they project their grievances on other issues, blaming one another on those things that are immaterial. No one will talk the real thing. Men that complain of tiredness after the day’s job and sleep li

“Do I need a woman’s attention before I make it in life? Who cares whether they pay attention or not, after all I am the head of the home.” These and many more are the shallow reasoning of some men. Check it very well; such men are not making good homes. We are saying expressly and authoritatively that to extent a man will enlist his wife’s attention will be his success martially. It is a pity that only few among men understand the fact that their attitude to their wives will determine if their prayer will be answered or hindered. “Husbands…considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect…so that nothing will hinder your prayers” (1 Peter 3:7) we still have many more to say in enlightening these type of men, but not in this (article) set-up, may be in another time. Only those that believe in the worth of women and want to treat them with due respect we are addressing here.

The first thing that ever comes in mind is love. A man that is good in the art of love will ever get his wife’s close attention. Love is the essence of all virtues in life. God spent all He had for man’s salvation just on the basis of love He had towards man. When we are talking about love we are not talking about the lust that people called love these days nor we are discussing the love only on tongue, the type that is devoured of practical demonstration. Though the nature of this write up would not allow us to lay out all what love is and what it is not but sufficient it is if we can know that our love must embraced the three major facets of love. That is Philia, Eros and Agape. Our loving must run through these three to and fro, then it will have meaning. Don’t forget we are talking about husband and wife. Your wife is your best friend and we all know how good it is to treat a friend, the friendship aspect of love is what the Greek called Philia – friendship. Forget about attention getting when you cannot relate to your wife as a friend. The romantic love is only practicable between you and your wife, this is Eros. We are still going to discuss this fully in other subheading, the more romantic your love is so your wife will fully cooperate. Lastly, Agape the God type of love, the unconditional selfless outgoing love toward your wife will cement your relationship. The only language women understand very well is the language of love. They are melting into the hands of those fellows who know how to love them. Apparently love is needed to melt down the effect of authoritative leadership position of the man on his wife. Love serves as anti-virus towards superiority and inferiority complexes that could have emerged.

Secondly, a man that is consumed with the welfare of his family will eventually gain the full attention of his wife. Women love men that will pay attention to their children welfare not only on mouth but will put it into action, come rain come sun. It takes a serious husband to balance his schedule in such a way that other programs will not jeopardize the time he suppose to use with the family. When your wife sees that her children are your eyes and everything, she will pay all her attention to you unweaving. Many well to do business executive, church and organization leaders are not as well good husband in the home front and that is their waterloo. A man that wake up to go out early each day, Monday to Friday only to come back late in the nights tired and weak both to talk on the table while eating and on the bed without fond will not have attention of his wife. Nothing we can give in exchange for cordial relationship that we can achieve through heart to heart discussion on relaxed atmosphere as husband have time with his wife on the table while eating, at bed time and even as they stroll out of home. What we are simply saying here is that you have to give attention before you can get attention, you have to give before you can get that is the nature of life.

Thirdly, spirit of out going concern, whereby the man seasoned and cemented his love through spontaneous giving is another way husband can win his wife’s total attention. Every special day of her life is given a serious attention with gift attached. Their birthday, wedding day, inauguration or convention days are all special in the lives of our wives. When you see something attractive outside and you buy for her, the latest wear to match, special biro, handbag and ladies under wear. A man that can go to this extent will definitely gain his wife’s attention. Giving had been termed to be the symbol of love. “For God so love the world and gave his only begotten son…” God had practically demonstrated this fact, and any one that wants to enjoy life must follow suit. We must not only love in talking. I love you ‘syndrome’ that is devour of practical action is out of order. We must be able to give all, including our very life to the one we love – our wives. In our giving we must remember our wife’s relations. We must carry her people along. They are significant people to our home. Having good relationship with our in-laws goes a long way in getting our wife’s attention.

Been good at bed is another way a man can employ to get his wife’s attention. This is very good; a man that is weak at bed is eventually turning his wife to look out. It pays to go for medical check-up whenever you observe that sex had become problem in the home. Learning the art of sex is never an effort wasted. Woman love strong energetic and romantic man that will do it to their satisfaction. She will always hold the man’s picture in her mind, she will also want to be close with such man – hence getting her attention will not pose any problem. Very well meaning individuals are trying to ignore this fact, but I will not. In all my writings and practical seminars on marriage I use to emphasis on the issue of sex. Marriage are heading on rock these days just the couples involve would not wisely handle the issue of sex. The irony of it is that no couple will ever come out and nail the real issue at-stake; instead they project their grievances on other issues, blaming one another on those things that are immaterial. No one will talk the real thing. Men that complain of tiredness after the day’s job and sleep lif

led love these days nor we are discussing the love only on tongue, the type that is devoured of practical demonstration. Though the nature of this write up would not allow us to lay out all what love is and what it is not but sufficient it is if we can know that our love must embraced the three major facets of love. That is Philia, Eros and Agape. Our loving must run through these three to and fro, then it will have meaning. Don’t forget we are talking about husband and wife. Your wife is your best friend and we all know how good it is to treat a friend, the friendship aspect of love is what the Greek called Philia – friendship. Forget about attention getting when you cannot relate to your wife as a friend. The romantic love is only practicable between you and your wife, this is Eros. We are still going to discuss this fully in other subheading, the more romantic your love is so your wife will fully cooperate. Lastly, Agape the God type of love, the unconditional selfless outgoing love toward your wife will cement your relationship. The only language women understand very well is the language of love. They are melting into the hands of those fellows who know how to love them. Apparently love is needed to melt down the effect of authoritative leadership position of the man on his wife. Love serves as anti-virus towards superiority and inferiority complexes that could have emerged.

Secondly, a man that is consumed with the welfare of his family will eventually gain the full attention of his wife. Women love men that will pay attention to their children welfare not only on mouth but will put it into action, come rain come sun. It takes a serious husband to balance his schedule in such a way that other programs will not jeopardize the time he suppose to use with the family. When your wife sees that her children are your eyes and everything, she will pay all her attention to you unweaving. Many well to do business executive, church and organization leaders are not as well good husband in the home front and that is their waterloo. A man that wake up to go out early each day, Monday to Friday only to come back late in the nights tired and weak both to talk on the table while eating and on the bed without fond will not have attention of his wife. Nothing we can give in exchange for cordial relationship that we can achieve through heart to heart discussion on relaxed atmosphere as husband have time with his wife on the table while eating, at bed time and even as they stroll out of home. What we are simply saying here is that you have to give attention before you can get attention, you have to give before you can get that is the nature of life.

Thirdly, spirit of out going concern, whereby the man seasoned and cemented his love through spontaneous giving is another way husband can win his wife’s total attention. Every special day of her life is given a serious attention with gift attached. Their birthday, wedding day, inauguration or convention days are all special in the lives of our wives. When you see something attractive outside and you buy for her, the latest wear to match, special biro, handbag and ladies under wear. A man that can go to this extent will definitely gain his wife’s attention. Giving had been termed to be the symbol of love. “For God so love the world and gave his only begotten son…” God had practically demonstrated this fact, and any one that wants to enjoy life must follow suit. We must not only love in talking. I love you ‘syndrome’ that is devour of practical action is out of order. We must be able to give all, including our very life to the one we love – our wives. In our giving we must remember our wife’s relations. We must carry her people along. They are significant people to our home. Having good relationship with our in-laws goes a long way in getting our wife’s attention.

Been good at bed is another way a man can employ to get his wife’s attention. This is very good; a man that is weak at bed is eventually turning his wife to look out. It pays to go for medical check-up whenever you observe that sex had become problem in the home. Learning the art of sex is never an effort wasted. Woman love strong energetic and romantic man that will do it to their satisfaction. She will always hold the man’s picture in her mind, she will also want to be close with such man – hence getting her attention will not pose any problem. Very well meaning individuals are trying to ignore this fact, but I will not. In all my writings and practical seminars on marriage I use to emphasis on the issue of sex. Marriage are heading on rock these days just the couples involve would not wisely handle the issue of sex. The irony of it is that no couple will ever come out and nail the real issue at-stake; instead they project their grievances on other issues, blaming one another on those things that are immaterial. No one will talk the real thing. Men that complain of tiredness after the day’s job and sleep li

oritative leadership position of the man on his wife. Love serves as anti-virus towards superiority and inferiority complexes that could have emerged.

Secondly, a man that is consumed with the welfare of his family will eventually gain the full attention of his wife. Women love men that will pay attention to their children welfare not only on mouth but will put it into action, come rain come sun. It takes a serious husband to balance his schedule in such a way that other programs will not jeopardize the time he suppose to use with the family. When your wife sees that her children are your eyes and everything, she will pay all her attention to you unweaving. Many well to do business executive, church and organization leaders are not as well good husband in the home front and that is their waterloo. A man that wake up to go out early each day, Monday to Friday only to come back late in the nights tired and weak both to talk on the table while eating and on the bed without fond will not have attention of his wife. Nothing we can give in exchange for cordial relationship that we can achieve through heart to heart discussion on relaxed atmosphere as husband have time with his wife on the table while eating, at bed time and even as they stroll out of home. What we are simply saying here is that you have to give attention before you can get attention, you have to give before you can get that is the nature of life.

Thirdly, spirit of out going concern, whereby the man seasoned and cemented his love through spontaneous giving is another way husband can win his wife’s total attention. Every special day of her life is given a serious attention with gift attached. Their birthday, wedding day, inauguration or convention days are all special in the lives of our wives. When you see something attractive outside and you buy for her, the latest wear to match, special biro, handbag and ladies under wear. A man that can go to this extent will definitely gain his wife’s attention. Giving had been termed to be the symbol of love. “For God so love the world and gave his only begotten son…” God had practically demonstrated this fact, and any one that wants to enjoy life must follow suit. We must not only love in talking. I love you ‘syndrome’ that is devour of practical action is out of order. We must be able to give all, including our very life to the one we love – our wives. In our giving we must remember our wife’s relations. We must carry her people along. They are significant people to our home. Having good relationship with our in-laws goes a long way in getting our wife’s attention.

Been good at bed is another way a man can employ to get his wife’s attention. This is very good; a man that is weak at bed is eventually turning his wife to look out. It pays to go for medical check-up whenever you observe that sex had become problem in the home. Learning the art of sex is never an effort wasted. Woman love strong energetic and romantic man that will do it to their satisfaction. She will always hold the man’s picture in her mind, she will also want to be close with such man – hence getting her attention will not pose any problem. Very well meaning individuals are trying to ignore this fact, but I will not. In all my writings and practical seminars on marriage I use to emphasis on the issue of sex. Marriage are heading on rock these days just the couples involve would not wisely handle the issue of sex. The irony of it is that no couple will ever come out and nail the real issue at-stake; instead they project their grievances on other issues, blaming one another on those things that are immaterial. No one will talk the real thing. Men that complain of tiredness after the day’s job and sleep li

hey stroll out of home. What we are simply saying here is that you have to give attention before you can get attention, you have to give before you can get that is the nature of life.

Thirdly, spirit of out going concern, whereby the man seasoned and cemented his love through spontaneous giving is another way husband can win his wife’s total attention. Every special day of her life is given a serious attention with gift attached. Their birthday, wedding day, inauguration or convention days are all special in the lives of our wives. When you see something attractive outside and you buy for her, the latest wear to match, special biro, handbag and ladies under wear. A man that can go to this extent will definitely gain his wife’s attention. Giving had been termed to be the symbol of love. “For God so love the world and gave his only begotten son…” God had practically demonstrated this fact, and any one that wants to enjoy life must follow suit. We must not only love in talking. I love you ‘syndrome’ that is devour of practical action is out of order. We must be able to give all, including our very life to the one we love – our wives. In our giving we must remember our wife’s relations. We must carry her people along. They are significant people to our home. Having good relationship with our in-laws goes a long way in getting our wife’s attention.

Been good at bed is another way a man can employ to get his wife’s attention. This is very good; a man that is weak at bed is eventually turning his wife to look out. It pays to go for medical check-up whenever you observe that sex had become problem in the home. Learning the art of sex is never an effort wasted. Woman love strong energetic and romantic man that will do it to their satisfaction. She will always hold the man’s picture in her mind, she will also want to be close with such man – hence getting her attention will not pose any problem. Very well meaning individuals are trying to ignore this fact, but I will not. In all my writings and practical seminars on marriage I use to emphasis on the issue of sex. Marriage are heading on rock these days just the couples involve would not wisely handle the issue of sex. The irony of it is that no couple will ever come out and nail the real issue at-stake; instead they project their grievances on other issues, blaming one another on those things that are immaterial. No one will talk the real thing. Men that complain of tiredness after the day’s job and sleep li

nificant people to our home. Having good relationship with our in-laws goes a long way in getting our wife’s attention.

Been good at bed is another way a man can employ to get his wife’s attention. This is very good; a man that is weak at bed is eventually turning his wife to look out. It pays to go for medical check-up whenever you observe that sex had become problem in the home. Learning the art of sex is never an effort wasted. Woman love strong energetic and romantic man that will do it to their satisfaction. She will always hold the man’s picture in her mind, she will also want to be close with such man – hence getting her attention will not pose any problem. Very well meaning individuals are trying to ignore this fact, but I will not. In all my writings and practical seminars on marriage I use to emphasis on the issue of sex. Marriage are heading on rock these days just the couples involve would not wisely handle the issue of sex. The irony of it is that no couple will ever come out and nail the real issue at-stake; instead they project their grievances on other issues, blaming one another on those things that are immaterial. No one will talk the real thing. Men that complain of tiredness after the day’s job and sleep lifeless all night are their wives nightmare. Sexually they are starving their wives. We must regulate our life in all ramifications so that one does not disturb the other. Taking care of our wives with all wits is the issue here.

Finally, the fear of God that is the beginning of wisdom is highly necessary in the life of a man that wants to get full attention of his wife. Women are always happy when they know that the future holds well with the man they are going to use the rest of their life. When they know that the future is at-stake forget about getting their attention. There is no future for any man that lacks the fear of God. It is the foundation. The fear of God in essence is referencing God in our live and dealing with others in a godly manner that upholds the golden rule in all ramifications. It is the fear of God that will make the marriage work as each parties of the union seek the welfare of the other building up their strength and lay bear their shortcomings and weaknesses on the throne of grace. Man is the spiritual head of the home; he must do this with all seriousness able to lift his wife and the family member onto the Lord, day and night. A man that can do all of these will certainly enlist full attention of his wife.