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Write You - Ground Rules for High Self Esteem: Part 2
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I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final mo
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1. How can I be as confident as so many other people?
2. Isn’t it true that if I accomplish something of value I’ll feel better about myself?
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable “being in love” with someone else?
4. How does the “mirror dialogue” really work in raising self esteem?
THE ANSWERS
1. How can I be as confident as so many other people?
First, please stop comparing yourself to other people, because when we do that we are not valuing everyone’s inherent spiritual Divinity, as we are all equal. Second, when we compare ourselves to others, somehow we usually end up on the lower side of the spectrum.
If other people are radiating supreme confidence, they are usually following their own truth, and really don’t care about what other people think, how other people view them, or what other people say about them! They are living life according to what is true for them on the inside, and that is displayed in supreme confidence on the outside.
So live that way! Be the REAL you! Say and do what is true for you. Bring out your highest and best self at every opportunity. Follow what you really love in life, and live from your heart. There is nothing that can overcome a pure heart. When you are true to yourself, and you are true to others, sharing, expressing, and living your truth – you will feel a great deal of inner confidence, and then you can share how YOU are so confident with others!
2. Isn't it true that if I accomplish something of value I'll feel better about myself?
If you are going to base your self worth on "accomplishments" then you are NEVER going to feel inner peace, or genuine confidence from the inside out!
You will be chasing one accomplishment after another, and no matter how many mountains you climb, or how many degrees you receive, or how many billions of dollars you have in the back, or how many people you’ve cured, it is NOT about the “accomplishment” – it IS about the PROCESS, and the JOY you feel during the process!
I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final mo
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First, please stop comparing yourself to other people, because when we do that we are not valuing everyone’s inherent spiritual Divinity, as we are all equal. Second, when we compare ourselves to others, somehow we usually end up on the lower side of the spectrum.
If other people are radiating supreme confidence, they are usually following their own truth, and really don’t care about what other people think, how other people view them, or what other people say about them! They are living life according to what is true for them on the inside, and that is displayed in supreme confidence on the outside.
So live that way! Be the REAL you! Say and do what is true for you. Bring out your highest and best self at every opportunity. Follow what you really love in life, and live from your heart. There is nothing that can overcome a pure heart. When you are true to yourself, and you are true to others, sharing, expressing, and living your truth – you will feel a great deal of inner confidence, and then you can share how YOU are so confident with others!
2. Isn't it true that if I accomplish something of value I'll feel better about myself?
If you are going to base your self worth on "accomplishments" then you are NEVER going to feel inner peace, or genuine confidence from the inside out!
You will be chasing one accomplishment after another, and no matter how many mountains you climb, or how many degrees you receive, or how many billions of dollars you have in the back, or how many people you’ve cured, it is NOT about the “accomplishment” – it IS about the PROCESS, and the JOY you feel during the process!
I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final mo
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So live that way! Be the REAL you! Say and do what is true for you. Bring out your highest and best self at every opportunity. Follow what you really love in life, and live from your heart. There is nothing that can overcome a pure heart. When you are true to yourself, and you are true to others, sharing, expressing, and living your truth – you will feel a great deal of inner confidence, and then you can share how YOU are so confident with others!
2. Isn't it true that if I accomplish something of value I'll feel better about myself?
If you are going to base your self worth on "accomplishments" then you are NEVER going to feel inner peace, or genuine confidence from the inside out!
You will be chasing one accomplishment after another, and no matter how many mountains you climb, or how many degrees you receive, or how many billions of dollars you have in the back, or how many people you’ve cured, it is NOT about the “accomplishment” – it IS about the PROCESS, and the JOY you feel during the process!
I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final mo
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2. Isn't it true that if I accomplish something of value I'll feel better about myself?
If you are going to base your self worth on "accomplishments" then you are NEVER going to feel inner peace, or genuine confidence from the inside out!
You will be chasing one accomplishment after another, and no matter how many mountains you climb, or how many degrees you receive, or how many billions of dollars you have in the back, or how many people you’ve cured, it is NOT about the “accomplishment” – it IS about the PROCESS, and the JOY you feel during the process!
I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final mo
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I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final moment was not filled with so much joy. Additionally, how can you live your life for one accomplished moment?
When you win the Oscar, the next day that moment is behind you. If you are constantly chasing goals to feel worthy, please stop chasing, and really start enjoying every moment of what you are doing! THAT is where they joy is. It is NEVER in the final moment, because that moment passes – even if one moment is fantastic, it still passes. So the key is to really savor each MOMENT of your life – that's where all of the treasure is – in this NOW MOMENT, and NOT in another point in time.
You will feel much better about yourself when you really start ENJOYING who you are, and each moment of your life. That is when you will begin to feel all that you really are – right now.
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else?
If you don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, that is because you have not yet fell in love with yourself first!
It is time for you to really take a good hard look inside of your heart, and up-root every untruth you have ever been told, every lie you ever bought into about yourself, and every insult that you have ever called yourself, and replace that with pure self-love, without an outward condition attached to it.
When you can really feel your own value, and you can appreciate all of the good that you really are, THEN you will feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, without the fear that you will somehow be consumed, controlled, or lose your self completely.
No one can ever control or consume you, unless you allow them to do so. Start to allow yourself to slowly feel the love you have inside, and take tiny steps to show that on the outside. Once you see that the world is still the same, and you are actually safe, then you can take another step with more confidence.
You can only give what yo
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